Shorted out a flashback at work last night

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Last night, I started to have a flashback, and I found a new way to ground myself. I started clicking the button on my safety knife (its the knife I use at work to open boxes). The sound of the clicks somehow kept me from spiraling out of control.

Interesting, no?

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It makes sense...

Andrea Lena's picture

...both hearing and producing the sound of the knife enables you to remain grounded in the here and now; you're aware that while you are having the memory, it remains just that and doesn't become a means of becoming re-traumatizing. Other methods that can be incorporated are imagining a safe space or image that brings you comfort or strength; speaking to yourself while tapping on your hand, etc.

The key for us as survivors who deal with PTSD is that the memories and nightmares and flashbacks lose their hold, not by going away, because they don't...but rather by the diffusing of their effect by remembering that they are only memories. That's not to minimize those symptoms, but to recall that they represent events that have already taken place and hold no real current threat over us. Your therapist should be able to provide you with some exercises and coping mechanisms, but you've already found something that works. Good for you!

  

To be alive is to be vulnerable. Madeleine L'Engle
Love, Andrea Lena

Clickety Clack, Don't Flash Back!

That's great, Dorothy! I don't have your experiences, but I know from my own long battles with depression that once I learned a few coping methods that helped, it gave me a BIG psychological boost just knowing they weren't so powerful and unfightable as I'd thought.

(Sorry about the title to this message. That just popped into my head.)

Lisa