coming to terms with who I'm attracted to

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I think I can finally admit I find the idea of dating a crossdressing man appealing. what that says about me, I have no clue, but since it has maybe a 1% chance of happening, I probably shouldn't panic about it.

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The heart wants what it wants

We are all told by our families and friends who would be 'perfect for you'.
Sometimes it can be a shock to realise our body and mind don't agree with them.
Having been indoctrinated for years to think one thing is 'right' and everything else is wrong, letting an actual person get under your skin, even if you never talk to them, can shatter your views about who you are and what love is.

Often people surprise themselves when they discover what their heart actually wants.

Denying it leads nowhere good.

That doesn't mean it's anyone else's business, of course. Sometimes it's safer to keep that knowledge to yourself.

Love comes in many forms and it is a gift to be treasured, where ever you find it.

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Many of the trans women I

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Many of the trans women I have spoken to wouldn't go out with men. I don't know why that is. Possibly part of the rejection of the masculine in themselves?
I don't know your situation Dorothy, perhaps a crossdressing man it a half way solution?

Whatever you prefer is fine. We all have our preferences.

As for 1% chance of it happening, I'm a crossdressing man by necessity, I'm still on a couple of contact sites. I'm always being propopsitioned by crossdressing men.

So don't give up. Many are nice understanding people.

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Leeanna