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Another birthday come and gone. On the boards where people knew that Oct 11 is my b'day, I got 1 message. One. Family was gone today at drama stuff, so I was alone - again. Neither sibling called.

The whole thing is depressing. Wish it didn't exist. Wonder if the world would notice if I didn't...

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its always nice...

when your birthday is acknowledged, it should be special. sorry yours wasn't, but you would most definitely be missed here and on crystal hall. happy belated birthday and may you have many more happy ones.

Happy belated birthday wishes

Happy belated birthday wishes.
i know how you must feel, i'm no 10 of 14 children, and none of them want to know me.
to someone with a strong sense of family like myself it is extremely disheartening.
*hugs*

Happy birthday, Elrod.

I've always felt that a person's birthday should be a very special day for them, so I wish you the happiest returns.

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Well, a belated Happy

Well, a belated Happy Birthday to you Elrod. I was unaware that Oct 11 was your B-Day, I will place it in my calender web notes for future reference. Janice Lynn
ps: you are one of my favorite authors on BC.

*hugs*

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Happy birthday Elrod,

I wish it had gone better for you. I know all too well what it feels like when nobody seems to remember or care about my birthday, but we all would miss you. I hope you'll feel better soon.

*hugs*

Amethyst

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Don't take me too seriously. I'm just kitten around. :3

Well I would notice if you didn't.

Many happy returns Elrod, now I know it's your Birthday I'll try to remember it (and that's not because you aren't important but that I'm crap at remembering B/days :-S )

Huggs
Sammi

Guess I've

gotten to used to Facebook telling me about birthdays and never think to check other places. Sorry I missed it, as I know how it not being noticed feels. Mine was three weeks ago and really the only notice it got was Facebook msgs...

Janice

Not even that

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I didn't even get Facebook messages. It's like when I was in grade school, and my parents forgot my birthday because my siblings had things going on in their lives that the parents decided were more important. Sigh....

Imagination is more important than knowledge
A. Einstein

Birthday wishes

Alas, I did not know that your birthday was yesterday. I would like to extend to you my best wishes for a Happy Birthday all be them belated and for you to have many more. It is too bad that your real family did not contact you, but, your family here at BC can try to fill the gaps for you. We your family here and where else you publish would dearly miss you and your great stories!

A late

but no less heartfelt Happy Birthday.
Big hugs
Grover

Didn't know

We could have celebrated our mutual birthday together, far apart. But after 69 of them, I'm about ready to quit having birthdays.
I hope you got to do something you'd never done before, even if you did have to do it alone as I did.

Bob

Hi Elrod, I'm sorry I didn't

Hi Elrod, I'm sorry I didn't know your birthday was October 11. I would definitely notice your absence since I enjoy your stories a lot. Belated happy birthday!

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Ahhh, what am I going to do with you, hon? The reason artists are so good is they share their emotions with everyone and display it in their work. Think of actresses also in that same thought train. They need to be handled delicately like one would the finest crystal, or a beautiful flower. Rough handling ends disastrous for all.
Dates and events aren't really a top dog thing for some of us. I don't remember my own kids birthdays. After all these years all three of them call me a week or so ahead and every day there after up until the day. Then they call me first thing in the morning to remind me again. They understand and accepted dates are not my thing. They extract their revenge by teasing me mercilessly and plot together to give me erroneous dates.
Birthdays mean so much to some because it is that person's one special day when for at least a little bit of time happiness is allowed to seep into their lives. Knowing you like I do, happy birthday Elrod. All my love to one of the finest writers in my lifetime.]
always,
Barb

Oklahoma born and raised cowgirl

One of my favorite

movies is; "Its a Wonderful Life." I know its but a movie but we don't know who we have indirectly helped along the way. I don't take note of my birthday much anymore. I'm tickled to make another year pass.

I do hope you get to feeling better and "Happy Birthday Elrodw!" And many more to come.

Happy Belated Birthday.

With apologies for missing the day itself. Like others, I tend to forget dates a lot. I know I'd miss you if you weren't around. So would a lot of other people.

Maggie

Birthday?

Hi!

I didn't know we shared a birthday. Happy Birthday to us!

We had planned a big celebratory dinner with friends. There is a great restaurant that cooks everything in Scotch. And, that would mean that the beverage of choice would be a fine single malt.

Then, my spouse went blind in one eye.
PANIC!!!
Call doctor. Emergency visit.
Yup, detached retina.
Hospital next day.
Face down for 10 days! Yikes!
We're on day three. It's yukky, but better than being blind, when all you have to do is lie on your face and all will be well.

Talk about a screwed up B-Day?

Anyhoo, Happy Birthday to us!

Red MacDonald