A little background on Switching Playing Fields

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I just wanted to say that I appreciate the comments about my story "Switching Playing Fields."
It's been interesting following some of the debates going on.
I wanted to throw some things out there that might be helpful.
I've always been fascinated by boys and girls who venture out of the traditional realm of their gender. Sports is an area I enjoy reading about.
The characters of Torey and Beth are based in part on a very beautiful girl I know in small town Alabama who was the placekicker on her high school football team and played on the boys soccer team because the school didn't have a girls team.
Lucas is also based in part on my experiences, too. growing as the only boy in a ballet class.
I chose field hockey to a degree because it is the one sport that does require the boy to wear a skirt when he plays on the girls, at least in competition in states where its allowed.
Some of what occurs in the story is based on actual accounts. Even in states where boys are allowed to play on girls teams, there is a debate on whether they should be allowed, especially in later years, because of a physical advantage.
There have been all-girl teams that have forfeited rather than face teams with boys where the coaches feel their players are in danger of getting hurt, no matter how real of a threat it actually is.
I also made a veiled reference to the Little League softball world series. The way Little League's by-laws are structured (or was a few years ago) a girl can play baseball. And boys can play on girls softball teams.
It's always a cute story when there is a girl on a baseball team that reaches the Little League World Series in Williamsport, Pa.
It's not always cute when a boy plays softball. When the Little League baseball league folded in an Arizona town, a woman coach recruited four boys for her team in softball. They advanced to the World Series. Like the field hockey teams I've cited, there were teams at the world series that refused to play them and forfeited. They won.
I wasn't alleging a conspiracy among coaches or referees in the story. I preferred to leave it to what fans see at a sporting event. 99 percent of the games you watch don't involve conspiracies.
They do involve referees who miss calls. They also involve referees who call things differently. I've watched girls basketball games where if a player sneezed, it seems like a foul is called. I've watched others in uptempo games where refs "let them play" and brutal shots happen.
I have seen coaches, men and women, who take a win at all cost attitude, and I would put the Creekmore coaches in that category.
I've also seen plenty of cheap shots in my day, sometimes to send a message, sometimes to intimidate.
And finally...I wasn't trying to make all of the bad guys men or women. There are men and women on both sides of the debate on whether kids should play sports of the opposite gender.
There are women coaches like Coach Parker who are strongly opposed to boys playing girls sports even in states where it is allowed.
There are villians and heroes of both genders in Switching Playing Fields, just as there are in life.
That's my two cents worth. Pardon the typos in my stories and in this blog. I just got off work.
And thank all of you for reading my story!

Hugs,
Torey

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Thanks Torey,

ALISON

'for a good,entertaining story.I thought at first that it may be a 'humiliation' thing which would have switched me off straight away,but this hasn't been the
case and I trust that it stays that way.Many thanks.

ALISON

I loved Soft Ball.

When I was in Grade School, Softball is all that boys played. The girls did not play it because they were not allowed pants. This in small town Oregon, in 1960. I loved the game. It was not known that girls could actually throw a ball at the time, and it was thought that if a girl ran too much she'd break her hymen.

I tried out for baseball in High School but as soon as I heard the crack of the bat on that ball and watched that bullet streak throught the air, that was it for me.

I was eventually begged to go on the gymnastics team, and told that I could easily get an athletic scholarship in that. I didn't and regret it.

Khadijah

Another Oregonian

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I too grew up in Oregon during the fifties and sixties. In the seventh and eighth grades, we had a softball team and basketball team that I competed in. I wasn't very good in either, but made the team because we were such a small school, that if every boy in the class didn't turn out, there wouldn't be enough player to make substitutions.

As a legacy, when my granddaughter started playing softball, I got my old glove out of the garage, oiled it and went to her house to play catch with her and inadvertently left my glove there. When I went to the next game as I walked onto the field, I scanned the players doing their warm-ups to see if I could spot my granddaughter. What I spotted first was my glove. When she spotted me, my granddaughter just grinned and waved with my glove. That was the last time I thought of it as "my glove." She prefers it to the nice new glove her dad bought her when she started. I don't have a baseball glove anymore.

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Patricia
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Hugs
Patricia

Happiness is being all dressed up and HAVING some place to go.
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There's also a real life

discussion of the issue on another website called www.mother.com or www.mothers.com or www.mothering.com etc about a mother who is concerned about her son wanting to play on a girl's field hockey team. And yes her son would have to wear the proper uniform.

Torey's story is based pretty close to real life. Whoever the villains of this piece is, we'll know soon enough but the deliberate physical harassment to the degree being exhibited by these boys need to be muzzled in real life or in story life. Yeah, there are female bullies too, as I encountered that while I was in middle school as a 135 pound 'boy', but again it was done in a different way.

In my opinion there is too much masculinization of sports culture where over the hill aggression is the only thing that is respected and brute force, versus team work and finesse being the norm. Reminds me a bit of the Philadelphia Flyers of ice hockey during the 80's, the classic bully boys of hockey. If woman coaches are also buying into that ethic to win then fool are they for falling to the lowest common denominator.

Kim

I am not really associating

aggression as a muscular feature but still there is too much aggression is the US sport culture.

I think it derives from the general mindset in the US (which ,as in my country, is very aggressive) and that it's just a symptom of a bigger problem.

Lily.

Issues handled realistically

I think you do a good job with the attitudes of the various people involved - the coach that blames Lucas for the oversized boy players, the way the girls didn't want him at the start, and the way that having a girl on the football team changes things. If the story was simply about Lucas on the field hockey team, the situation would be quite different. As it is, the girl football player provides a nice counterpoint.

Thanks for the very real story

I do disagree on a few of your comments to an extent, specifically on 'lessening' the refereeing standards on competition games. In my experience, not just in basketball, but in football (all types) and even taekwondo, I've found that most ref's and judges tighten standards if players are mismatched, or when players get out of hand and get too physical.

But I think I understand what you were trying to state, in that refs want to let the players play and compete, instead of being pedantic about every nuance of the rules.

A good game is a game that is fair and competitive.
If you lose a fair and competitive match, you can still feel good about it.
Winning a game that was not fair and competitive, and you were continually favored is a hollow victory.

But, at the same time, not all 'bad' calls are a referee's fault, and the occasional bad call is part of any game.

About unsportsmanlike play

I'm not a follower of any sport, but I usually appreciate a game when I happen to see one.

I once went to watch my nephew play in a tournament, and quickly saw what a great player he is, and how well his team played together. They were beating everyone they were put against -- not always easily, but very consistently.

And then suddenly they played against an opponent who seemed to throw them off. I could see the frowns on my nephew's teammates.

What was happening was that the other team was getting in quick jabs and pokes when the refs couldn't see. These guys were very adept at knowing what the ref could and couldn't see. And what the refs didn't see, they couldn't call.

Someone who plays dirty isn't going to be overt.