Sung to the tune of "I'm Not Going To Let It Bother Me Tonight
With apologies to The Atlanta Rhythm Section
I fucked up my breakfast this morning
This life just gives me the blues
My gender is a tragedy
There's nothing that I can do
About all this hair and my jaw line
I'm struggling with my sorrow
And living in a danger zone
Might end it all tomorrow
I'm not gonna let it happen to me tonight
Not gonna let it happen to me tonight
Won't let my gender bother me tonight
Life in my body is a struggle
I look awful wearing lace
I just look like an old rat face dog
Like rats have chewed on my face
Trying not to let it bother me tonight
I'm not gonna let it bother me tonight
The country's in an uproar and I see no end in sight
And it really does bother me tonight
Trying not to let it bother me tonight
Tomorrow I might go as far as suicide
It certainly does bother me tonight
Lord, Lord, Lord
I am nothing but trouble
And I've made up my face tonight
So bartender pour me a double, right now
But who I'm not is gonna bother me
Not being myself is gonna bother me tonight
Not being a woman bothers me tonight
My life's not tolerable and I see no end in sight.
But I swear I won't end it all tonight
Not gonna let my body bother me tonight
No I'm not gonna let it bother me tonight
And some day I may try suicide
But I promise I won't kill myself tonight
July 4, 2023
Sherry crept up to her house, she was off work early and wanted to surprise her son. Her boss didn’t close early very often, so he wouldn’t be expecting her, and she was bringing home some take out. When she opened the door, she saw a girl in a blue chiffon dress go streaking up the stairs. “My son has a girl over? He’s not allowed to have anyone over while he’s home alone, much less a girl!” she thought.
“Brandon! Get your butt down here right now, and bring your friend with you. You are in big trouble mister,” she said, not realizing just how prophetic those words would be.
She heard some very tentative footsteps on the stairs and the girl started walking down; with her head down so far, Sherry could hardly see her face. The girl looked to be about 13 like her son, with long blonde hair. When she reached the bottom, she looked up and softly mumbled something.
“Who are yo… Brandon?”
“Hi Mom.”
“Wha… You-you are… Why… Y-you’re in a dress?” she stammered.
“This is me, Mom. I didn’t expect you home yet, but I guess my secret is out. I’m a girl, Mom. My name is Sylvia now.”
Sherry stumbled over to the couch and collapsed. “Am I dreaming? If so, I need to wake up from this nightmare.”
“Mom, I’ve known for a while now that I’m really a girl. I’ve always felt wrong, I’ve always wished I had been born a girl, but I know now that I am a girl, I was just born in the wrong body.”
“Stop it! You are not a girl, you are my son!
“Mom,” he said as he sat down on the couch while smoothing his dress under him, “I am a girl, I was born a girl.”
“Brandon!” she said a bit hysterically, “You are just confused, all of this woke propaganda has confused you. There are only two sexes, and you are a boy.”
“Mom…”
“Don’t ‘Mom’ me young man! I don’t care what you want to pretend to be, in my house you will not do that! I will not have my son prancing around like some kind of sissy! You are my son, and you will always be my son. Now go to your room and get your ass dressed like a normal person. And you better bring those… things… to me, they are going in the trash!”
Brandon turned away and trudged up the stairs. “Is this the Twilight Zone or something? I can’t believe it. My son is trying to tell me he is really a girl! Admittedly, he’s a just a little guy, but then puberty hasn’t started yet. Maybe he’ll be like his dad; he didn’t start growing until he was in high school. I should probably make him cut his hair, that long blonde hair could have him being called a girl at school, which could cause this delusion. I'm glad I came home early tonight, I have to nip this shit in the bud. I need a drink!” she thought, anxiously.
Sherry poured herself a brandy and sat down at the kitchen table. “I don’t know where I went wrong, should I have remarried after his father left us? Did he need a male influence in his life? It has been just the two of us since he was three.”
“Mom, I’m sorry, I won’t do it again,” Brandon tried out in his room. “Aarrgh, I can’t say that, I’m not sorry! This is me, I’m not some hairy muscle-bound moron scratching my butt and farting while I watch football. But now, when I change out of my clothes like usual, I can't keep them.”
Brandon came back down the stairs after a bit, handing Sherry the dress. Without a word, he just turned to go back back upstairs, walking very slowly.
“Brandon, I don’t know what to think about what just happened. I need some time, but you must realize that I can’t just let this go, I will talk with you in the morning about this. For now, let’s just let this go and we can have some dinner, I brought home some of your favorite Chinese take-out .”
“I’m not hungry,” he said sullenly, heading back upstairs.
“You come back here this instant, we are not going to waste this food.”
With a huge sigh, Brandon turned back around and sat down as Sherry set out some food. He picked at it a bit, eating a little before he asked to be excused and went to his room. Sherry went out and threw the dress in the trash, done with it.
In the morning, when she went to wake him up, she noticed that his eyes were red as if he had not slept. She told him he was grounded for the next two months and had better be on his best behavior, but that this would be the last time that she would bring this up if it never happened again.
August 11, 2023
“Brandon, get down here please.”
“Yes, Mom?”
“It’s a little bit early, but you have been very well behaved, so you can end your grounding today. Your friends called just now, wanting to know if you are still grounded, so I told them you can go with them to the movies. Go get dressed in something nice and buy your friends some dinner before the movie, here’s my card. I love you son. I know it has been hard on him these past 6 weeks or so, but it is for his own good. I can’t let him ruin his life with this cross-dressing crap.”
“Finally. I wish I could go out as myself, but I haven’t even been able to come out to my best friends yet. I’m terrified that they would react just like my Mom, and I don’t think I could take that from them too. I’ll probably have to wait until I graduate high school, but that is still so very far away. I don’t know how I’m going to be able to wait that long,” thought Brandon.
“Brandon, your friends are here,” Sherry yelled up the stairs to him. “Have a good time, be home by 11.”
“OK, Mom,” he replied, going out to meet his friends. Jason’s Mom was waiting outside in her car, along with Jason, Terry and Robert.
“Oh, man, it’s good to see you Bran, I was beginning to think those two months were going to last forever!” said Robert, “I hope you appreciate that we waited for you to see the new ‘Mission Impossible’.”
While he appreciated that, the movie he really wanted to see was “Barbie”. He just didn’t think the guys would want to see that, and was afraid of what they might think of him to even ask. “This is getting on my nerves. As long as I can remember, I’ve wished I had been born a girl, but in the last six months or so that I’ve realized I am a girl on the inside, that this boy facade is what is pretend.”
“Thanks, man, I appreciate that. You guys are great friends.” I wonder….
September 1, 2023
“Mom, I’m home.”
“In here, son, I’m in the kitchen,” Sherry said, “It’s been three weeks since I let Brandon off his grounding, and I don’t think he has laughed or even smiled since then. Was I too harsh? I even think I’ve heard him cry sometimes at night, but I don’t want to embarrass him by saying anything. He’ll get over it in time, he would really be embarrassed if anyone else found out about the incident. He’s a big boy, after all.”
Brandon trudged into the kitchen and sat down, a somewhat sullen expression on his face. His usually fine features seemed a little hollow and his face was kind of pale, with shadows around his eyes.
“Brandon, have you lost weight?”
“I don’t know, maybe, I just haven’t had much of an appetite.”
“Son, I’m worried about you. You haven’t been spending much time with your friends, so I called Terry up and he said there is a pool party at Jason’s this afternoon. I know Jason will be there, along with his twin sister Ellen. You should have fun there, go get your bathing trunks. But first, I made your favorite meal, a French Dip sandwich and French Fries. They will be here in a half hour.”
"Grand, now I have to go pretend to have a good time, I know about the party; I just didn't want to go as I can’t let anyone see how I feel. This is really getting me down, nothing seems to be worth it. I couldn't afford to let Mom see that I saved my dress, so I hid all of my girl clothes in that shed that they never use in a suitcase mixed in with their suitcases. Maybe I can sneak off and wear something for a bit."
“Brandon, let’s go! Quit dawdling up there, your friends are expecting you.”
Brandon meandered down the stairway and went straight out the door to the car. Sherry followed, saying, “I don’t think you are going to get very far without me.” Brandon said goodbye once they were there and Sherry said she would be back in 4 hours.
“Brandon! Glad you made it, it wouldn’t have been much of a party without you,” said Jason.
“Hi Brandon,” said his sister Ellen, “I’ve something to show you upstairs, please come with me.”
Once in her room, Ellen shut the door and locked it reaching under her bed. She pulled out the suitcase that he had hidden and said, “Brandon, do you know anything about this?”
“It looks like one of your suitcases.”
“Well, it looks just like mine, but this one is mine,” she said, pulling out an identical suitcase from under her bed. “I was getting ready to go to my aunt’s next weekend, and when I opened it up.... Do you want to guess what I found?”
“Not really.”
“It is full of girl’s clothing, but mixed in there is a pair of gym shorts with your name on them. Care to tell me how your shorts ended up in this suitcase full of girl’s clothing?”
“Err… You see… I’m…” he stammered, staring at his shoes, “I don’t know?”
Ellen went and sat by Brandon, put her hand on his chin and pulled his face up to look at her. “Brandon, I think these are your clothes. I’ve seen how you look at girls at school, and it seems like you are just looking at their clothes and how they carry themselves. You don’t look at me or the other girls like the other boys do, you are respectful and seem to just be watching us. Am I wrong?”
Brandon blushed and said, “You’re not…” trailing off into mumbles.
“A little louder?”
“You’re not wrong, I like how the girls look in their clothes.”
“And if I’m not wrong, you wish you could look like that.”
Brandon blushed even redder and looked back down again.
“Brandon? It’s OK if you do,” she said, taking his chin again, “you wouldn’t be the first person at school to identify as transgender. I’m still your friend either way, but I think you need someone to confide in.”
“Call me Sylvia? But please, don’t do that around anyone else, I couldn’t take it if they reacted like my Mom did.”
“Only if we girls can hang out together tomorrow, come over in the morning and we can go for a walk through the woods. You can get changed here, no one will be here except my Dad and he will be working in his office all morning and afternoon on his book. When he is writing, he squirrels away in there for hours,” she replied, “now come on, let's join the others for the pool party. I’m sorry you have to wear those ugly swim trunks, but I didn’t see a swim suit in your suitcase, Sylvia.”
September 2, 2023
“Mom, I’m going over to Jason’s, Ellen is going to help me with my History homework.”
“OK Brandon, I’m glad you are going over to a friend’s house. Have a good time.”
Brandon knocked on the door, and Ellen opened the door after a few moments. “Sylvia, how are you, girl? Ready to have some girl time?”
Blushing, Brandon said, “Are you sure no one is here other than your Dad?”
“Absolutely! Now come on, it is time to get ready!” she said, and grabbed his hand to drag him upstairs.
“Now, go take a shower and wash your hair with the shampoo in there. I left an outfit in there for you, when you come out I’ll help you get ready. Go on, scoot!”
When it came time for Brandon to come out of the bathroom, it was Sylvia who came out instead, dressed in a flowered peasant skirt with a pale pink blouse. Ellen sat her down, blow dried and styled her hair, and then did a little makeup with a spray of perfume. Sylvia looked in the mirror when Ellen was done and saw a cute, barely teen-aged girl looking back at her.
“Is that really me? Oh my god, I look wonderful,” she squeaked, “thank you so very much!”
“Girl, get some shoes on, it is time to go for a hike! You have some cute pink sneakers in your suitcase, perfect for taking a walk.”
After spending a couple of hours in the woods just talking and having Sylvia learn how to talk and act more like a girl, the girls came back for lunch. Ellen led Sylvia into the kitchen, and they started making some sandwiches. They were just about done when a voice came from the doorway, “Ellen, who is your friend? I don’t think I’ve met her before.”
Sylvia jumped a foot or two in the air. “Eeep, you scared me! Ellen said you would be locked in your study all day!”
“I’m struggling with a chapter, so I thought I would get something to eat.”
“Here Daddy, you can have my sandwich, I’ll make another for myself. Want some mustard on it?”
“Thank you Pumpkin, that would be wonderful. What are you girls up to today?”
“Sylvia and I went for a walk in the woods, and now I think we are going to watch some TV.”
“If you wish, you could take the bus to the mall and watch a movie, I know you haven’t seen ‘Barbie’ yet. What about you, Sylvia?”
“I would love that sir, I haven’t seen it yet either, and I really have wanted to. Thank you very much for the offer.”
“So polite, you could learn from her Ellen.”
Ellen stuck out her tongue at her Dad, saying, “I’m polite! Well, most of the time… all right, sometimes I am.”
“Here kids, here’s some money for both of you, go have fun. Thanks for the sandwich Ellen, I’ll see you when you get back.”
After he left, Sylvia said, “You said he wouldn’t be out here, what if he figures out who I am? I shouldn’t have done this! Ack! How am I supposed to go to a movie like this? People will see me!”
“Relax girl, you look wonderful, no one will know who you are. If we run into anyone at the mall, I’ll tell them you are one of my cousins down to visit.”
After a bit, Ellen finally talked Sylvia into going to the movie, and the boys they met at a cafe after the movie never doubted the story for a moment. Sylvia went home afterwards in boy mode, and would never again refer to or think of herself as Brandon.
October 15, 2023
“No, Brandon, no! I thought we were done with this girl crap, you are not going to dress for Halloween as a girl, I don’t care what you say, No!”
“Mom…”
“I said no, Brandon. And that’s final! Say another word about this and you will be grounded again, maybe until you are 18!” Sherry yelled, stomping out of the kitchen and up the stairs.
“I’m sorry,” whispered Ellen as she gave Sylvia a hug, “I should have never suggested it.”
“Yeah. Me too. I really should have known better, but I would have really enjoyed being Wendy, after all Ellen is going to be Peter Pan. I guess it’s OK for girls to dress up as boys for Halloween, but not for me to be a girl.”
“I’ve got to go home Syl, I’ll see you at school. I’m so sorry,” she said with a sob as she hurried out the door.
October 22, 2023
“Hey Ellen?” Sylvia called up to Ellen’s window.
“What are you doing out there, it is almost 10 o’clock at night! I’m supposed to be settled in to go to bed.”
“I had to ask you a question. Do you still have the Wendy costume?”
“Of course, but your Mom said you couldn’t use that. Why are you asking?”
“There’s a Halloween party this Saturday, and Mom is going to have to work. I’m supposed to go as a pirate, but I don’t want to go like that! Could I come over and change before the party?”
“Walk with me to school tomorrow, and we’ll talk about it, now get yourself back home before your Mom finds out you are gone.”
October 29, 2023
“Ellen, I just can’t. Mom keeps dragging me with her to Church, and I can’t take it any more. The pastor went on and on about how the “woke agenda” is destroying this country and said that it is OK to force people to conform to the Church’s beliefs, that anyone using the LGBT initials was going to hell. I’m just too depressed and worn out to want to go to that party,” Sylvia said through her tears.
“Syl, you know I’m always here for you, and I would never do anything to hurt you, don’t you?” Sylvia just nodded her head. “Well, we watched a bit of the TV show 'I am Jazz' yesterday, and everyone in my family agreed that transgender rights should be supported, and that they would accept anyone who was like Jazz. I couldn’t help myself and when I said I knew someone who is, Jason said, ‘Oh, you mean Sylvia? I saw you talking with her and I figured out that she used to be Brandon after a bit, but I thought when she was ready to tell me, she would. They probably think that Brandon’s gay at school by now, because he talks and walks a bit differently.’ Mom and Dad were a bit surprised, but they had said you reminded them of Brandon before.”
Sylvia just looked at her shoes, and with a very quiet voice said, “I’m glad they accept me this way, why can’t my Mom?” and started to cry. “I’m still not going, even though I want to so much. It would just hurt too much to have to come home and hide again.”
October 31, 2023
“Brandon, what are you doing in bed? Don’t you want to go out with your friends for Halloween? You have that wonderful pirate’s costume, I’ve even got a fake beard and mustache to go with it. You will look all macho!”
“Mom, I don’t feel well, I’m going to stay home.”
“What’s wrong honey, is it your stomach again? You’ve been having trouble with that for a while now, even though the doctor couldn’t find anything wrong. I’m sorry you are going to miss out on a good time. Get some rest.”
Sylvia laid in bed for awhile, then got up and dug in her closet. Buried in the back of the closet, she had a large bottle of Tylenol*, according to the internet if you take enough of them, you can end it all. After looking at it for awhile, she put it back in the closet and got back into bed. "Not tonight."
November 23, 2023
“Brandon, you look so thin, are you eating enough?” asked Aunt Sue while they were alone in the back yard.
“I’ve been having some stomach issues, but the doctor says I’m OK.”
“Well, I brought your favorite sweet potato casserole for Thanksgiving, that should put some meat on your bones.”
“Thanks, Aunt Sue,” said Sylvia, giving Sue a hug.
“Well, that something you haven’t done in a couple of years now. Don’t stop though, I’m glad you did.”
“Aunt Sue, can I ask you a question without you telling my Mom about it?”
“I can’t promise that Brandon, but I will say that I won’t tell her unless I think that she has to know about it, and I will tell you if I am going to do so. Will that do?”
“I guess it will have to. I can’t get this out of my mind. You aren’t religious, yet Mom is, why is that?”
“When we were little girls, your Grandma gave us the choice of whether we wanted to go to Church or not. My friends didn’t go to Church, and neither did most of your Mom’s, but her best friend did, so she would go with her. I never liked Sally; she took after her father, who was a bigot and an alcoholic. But Sally doted on your mother. When your father left, it was Sally who supported your Mom and I came to realize that no matter how radical her ideals were, Sally was good for your Mom. I don’t agree with their extreme far-right beliefs, and I don’t like how it has dragged your Mom into those, but she needed Sally’s support. It just about destroyed your Mom, as you remember, when Sally died three years ago. She depends on that Church now, as she has alienated most of the people she grew up with. I do believe in God, I’m just not fond of organized religion.”
“Aunt Sue, what do you think about LGBT people? I know some kids from school who are gay, and they are very nice people. Yet Mom says that they are sinners and demons and are going to hell.”
“There are some Churches who accept LGBT people and there are some who won’t. I think people should be allowed to be whoever they are, as long as they are not hurting others. Those groups like in her Church believe they have to force people to be just like them. They feel like having LGBT people around would cause their children to be like them, but in reality, their children are exposed to far more “normal” people than they are to LGBT individuals. If having someone around that was different could really cause someone to change, then there wouldn’t be a single LGBT person in the world, as those people are being exposed to more “normal” individuals and that would cause them to become “normal” instead. Does that answer your question, Brandon?” she said, using air quotes every time she said “normal”.
“Yes, Aunt Sue. I have one more question for you, but I’m afraid to ask it.”
“Brandon, no matter what that question is, I want you to know that I will always love you, and I will always accept you, no matter what or who you are. And I can also tell you that, if I am right about that question, I won’t tell your mother about it.”
“Would you call me Sylvia? Just, not around Mom though.”
“Of course Sylvia. Now, let’s get downstairs and help your Mom with the dinner, OK? Oh, but one thing, is there anything Sylvia would want for Christmas?”
“Some make-up? I’ve got a secret spot I could hide it.”
“Of course, you know you are my favorite niece, after all.”
“Aunt Sue, I’m your only niece.”
“Well then, that proves you are the favorite.”
December 7, 2023
“Mom, tell me about Grandpa Bill?”
“I think I’ve told you everything I know about him, he drowned saving some other sailors that had been on the USS Arizona with him. Thanks to him, three sailors made it home to their families from Pearl Harbor. He might have survived himself, but he took too much shrapnel from bombs. They were able to recover his body, and he was entombed with his shipmates aboard the Arizona.”
“I didn’t mean how he died, what kind of man was he?”
“Your great-great… oh, I forget how many greats there are in there… grandma wrote about him for the memorial they have there. He was a quiet man, and a very well-liked man. He was generous and kind, and accepted everyone for who they were, no matter their color, their religion or their politics. I’ve never heard a bad word about him from anyone.”
“I bet Grandpa Bill would have let me be me. I know there wasn’t much acceptance back then, but he sounds like the kind of man that would. Why is my mother so mean? I know she loves me, but if I can’t be me, what point is there in living?”
December 25, 2023
“Oh, Sue, I forgot to tell you, I found one present you had for Brandon under the driver’s seat so I brought it in. He’s opening that one now. What did you get honey?”
Sylvia had already torn the wrapping off, and when she saw the make-up set she flinched, dropping the make-up on the floor right in front of her mother.
“There must be some mis…” started Sue.
“MAKE-UP! You bought my son MAKE-UP?” screamed Sherry, “Why in the world would you buy your nephew MAKE-UP?”
“I’m sorry,” said Sue to Sylvia, “is it OK if I…” Sylvia just nodded and stared at her shoes.
“Sherry, I don’t have a nephew, I have a niece. Now, I kno…”
“YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!” shrieked Sherry, “I don’t have a daughter, I have a son! You and your woke shit isn’t welcome in this house any more, GET OUT! Brandon, get your ass in your room, I will be up there as soon as I calm down. You are grounded for the rest of your life!”
Sylvia trudged up to her room, while Sue tried to reason with Sherry to no avail. Sue had to leave before it got physical, and Sherry sat down on the couch to settle down, falling asleep for a little while.
Sylvia sat on her bed, sobbing uncontrollably. Her Mom had finally pushed her over the edge, she felt that life was not worth living anymore. She went to her closet, took out the bottle of Tylenol* with a water bottle, and methodically swallowed every pill. It wasn’t long before she became lethargic, and soon after that, she started convulsing like she was having a seizure.
Sherry woke up and decided to go talk to her son. When she went in his room, she saw him convulsing on his bed, with foam coming out of his mouth. Screaming, she went to him and saw the empty bottle of Tylenol*. Panicked, she rushed to her purse and used her cellphone to call for help. Once the ambulance came, they were able to stabilize Sylvia for transport to the hospital. Sherry followed in her car.
December 31, 2023
Sherry woke up from her nap in the hospital room where Sylvia was comatose. Even though the hospital had been able to save her life, whether she ever woke up from her coma was unknown. Sherry had been staying there since Sylvia was admitted, except to go home at night.
“Dear God, please save my child. I don’t know why he did this to himself. This woke agenda has poison…”
“No, dear sister, you have poisoned her. You were more interested in what your Church has said than what your child has said. If she dies, you have only yourself to blame,” said Sue as she came into the room. “Your daughter needs you now; if you are going to pray, you need to pray for yourself to abandon your extreme beliefs. You have two choices. You can have a dead son, or you can have a live daughter if she wakes up from this, because if you force her to be something she is not, she will not choose to live.”
Sherry collapsed on the floor, sobbing “No, no, no. I can’t… no, I must! Sue, please tell me what to do.”
Sue told her to pray for forgiveness, and to learn to accept who her child was. Sherry did and then made a New Year’s resolution. “I resolve to change. I will not be the person I was. I want my child to live, I love hi… her. I will embrace this change and help Sylvia to become the child she wishes to be.”
“Mom, where am I?”
*Paracetamol in the UK
“Mom, I’m home!”
“Bobby, get in here!”
“What Mom?”
“Excuse me?”
“I mean, yes Mom, what do you want?”
“I went to change your bed right now, and I found a baby doll tucked in by your pillow! Where did this come from? Is this the one your cousin Holly couldn’t find when she came to visit the other day? She was heartbroken having to go home without her favorite dolly!”
“Yes, Mom, that is her dol…”
“WHAT! Why would you take her doll baby? What in the world is going on with you young man, first you won’t let me cut your hair, and now you have her baby doll!” she yelled, “Well, what do you have to say for yourself?”
“Mom, I found her doll stuck in Dad’s recliner last night, and I know Holly doesn’t like her dollies to be lonely, so I put her in my bed so she wouldn’t be lonely. I was going to call her when I came home from school that I had found her baby, and that I would keep her safe until she came back next week.”
“Oh, my. Oh, my. Bobby, I am so sorry I yelled at you. It has just become so difficult for me to understand you these days, that for a minute…. Never mind, I was about to say something silly. You can go ahead and hang on to her dolly until she comes to visit next month. Now go and get changed and do your homework.”
Once I had the room to myself, I took a little time and cuddled with my baby doll. It hadn’t been lost at all, Holly gave her to me, you see she is the only one in the family that knows who I really am. I will have to admit, Holly put on a good show of pretending to have lost her doll. I’m going to have to find a good hiding place for her for during the day, though.
"Suzy, I can't decide," Bobby whispered.
"Bobby, you don't need to whisper, no one is around. And even if they were, it is 2023 and, at least here in Calfornia, no one cares if you buy a blouse."
"OK Suze, which one, the light blue silky one or the white with roses and lace? I can't afford both of the.... eep!"
"Can I help you?" asked the young sales lady who had come up behind us both. "I think I can solve your dilemma, if you will answer me one question. Are those for you, or for someone else?"
"Um, well, you see, I think I will...."
"That answers that question, they are for you, and I'm willing to use my employee discount for you if that will help. I think they would both look wonderful on you, does a third off make them affordable?"
"Why, I mean, what are you talkin..."
"Silly, I have a cousin who is just like you, only she never got the chance to be herself. She lived in Tennessee and it didn't turn out very well. I'm Angie, by the way."
"Angie, I'm Bobb... Barbara and this is my bestie, Suzy. I appreciate the offer, and I will take both."
I've got a problem today, I hope that mom understands. I need to get some new underwear.
"Mom, I need some new underwear."
"I don't understand, how can you need new underwear, I bought you new underwear at the beginning of the school year, and it is only November. What have you been doing with them, taking them off and giving them away to boys at your school like in Sixteen Candles?"
"Mooommmm!"
"Well, then, explain it to me how you can need new underwear already."
"Um, you are kind of half right, I gave some I hadn't worn away. You see, Bobby needed them for Barbara."
"Why would a boy need to get panties for a girl?"
"Because Bobby doesn't have any for when she is Barbara."
"Suze, I've got a problem, the sole has come off of my shoes, I can't walk like this."
"Try going to the office, they might have some shoes in the lost and found, maybe you can borrow something from them."
"Good idea," I said as I left to the office, which thankfully wasn't far as my sole flopped around, being only attached at the heel.
"Sorry, Bobby, I'm afraid there aren't any shoes in the lost and found that might fit you," said Mrs. Peterson, the school secretary.
"Suzy, help! They don't have any shoes that I could wear"
"Here Bobby, try these," Suzy answered, as she handed me her sneakers (trainers for you Brits) she wore for P.E.
"Suze! These are girl's sneakers, I can't wear pink sneakers!"
"Bobby, then you will have to go barefoot or just flop around in those," she replied. "That's what you get for not having any gym shoes and just wearing your sneaks all the time. If you want, you can wear my Mary Janes instead of my sneakers."
"Suzy, you are just too much, I'm tempted to try to take you up on that, you wouldn't dare!"
"You're on," she said as she snatched the sneakers away from me.
I tried on the Mary Janes, which fit quite well, and said, "OK Suze, you had your joke, I'll wear the sneakers."
"Nope, you can just wear those today, besides, they look good on you, much better than those ragged sneakers you always wear."
“Bobby, sit still!”
“I can’t help it, it itches!”
“Bobby, be reasonable, I haven’t even picked up the clippers, it can’t itch.”
“Mom, I don’t care, can’t we just leave my hair long? It isn’t very long, it barely reaches my collar, there are lots of boys that have hair longer than I do.”
“Bobby, you will have to take better care of your hair then, you can’t go for weeks without washing your hair and you will have to use conditioner. I will not have you going around with greasy hair!”
“I’m not like Billy, I wash my hair every three days. But, what is conditioner?”
“I have a bottle of conditioner in my bathroom, use that after you wash your hair, just read the instructions. As your hair gets longer, you have to take better care of it, conditioner keeps you from having split ends. If you don’t take care of it, I’m going to make you get it cut like usual.”
She knows when I am lonesome
She cries when I am sad
She's up in the good times
She's down in the bad
Whenever I am discouraged
She knows just what to do
But girl,
She doesn't know about you
I can tell her my troubles
She makes them all seem right
I can make up excuses
For why her clothes are mussed
We can talk of tomorrow
I'll tell her things that I wanna do
But girl,
How can I tell her about you?
How can I tell her about you?
Girl, please tell me what to do
Everything seems right whenever I am you
So girl, won't you tell me
How to tell her about you
How can I tell her I become you
Whenever she is away
How can I say it's you I think of
Every single night and day
But when is it easy telling someone the truth
Oh girl, help me tell her about you
How can I tell her about you?
Girl, please tell me what to do
Everything seems right whenever I am you
So girl, won't you tell me
How to tell her about me?
One little girl was called Anne-Marie
Another little girl was called Felicity
Another little girl was called Sally-Pearl
The other was me
Yeah I'm a Girl
My name is Holly, I'm a head case
I like putting make-up on my face
Yeah I feel lucky when I get dresses to wear
And spend hours just fixing up my hair
I'm a girl, I'm a girl
But my ma won't permit it
I'm a girl, I'm a girl
But if I say I am
I get it
I'll put on a dress like Anne-Marie
Braid my hair like Felicity
Paint my nails like Sally Earle
Wear perfume since I'm a girl
I'm a girl, I'm a girl
But my ma doesn't get it
I'm a girl, I'm a girl
But if I say I am
I regret it
I won't play cricket on the green
Or ride my bike down the street
Might hurt myself, see my blood
I'll never come home all covered in mud
I'm a girl, I'm a girl
But my ma won't admit it
I'm a girl, I'm a girl, I'm a girl
I'm a girl, I'm a girl, I'm a girl, I'm a girl
I'm a girl, I'm a girl
I'm, a, girl!
I was just about to lose my lunch when I feel an arm snake around my waist, and someone else sit beside me on the bench. Strange, I think, the bullies in this little town usually begin by throwing my stuff in the trash and knocking me around a bit.
“It’s OK Jackson, those girls abuse everyone,” says a soft voice behind me. Turning around, I see several girls I don't know, along with my best friend and neighbor Deanna with her arm around me.
“Are they always like that?” I ask, putting my head back on the picnic table.
The blonde girl on the other side of me says, “Usually they are much worse, you just run faster than they do, you were halfway across the yard before we could even get up. By the way, I’m Heather.”
“And that’s Gwen, Molly and Stephanie,” says Deanna.
“Why would they want to pick on me?” I whine. “Isn’t it enough that the soccer players seem to think I’m a punching bag?”
“It’s the green monkey syndrome,” says one of the other girls, “If you take a monkey from it’s tribe, paint it green, and then return it to it’s tribe, all the other monkeys will pick on it, even if it was an alpha monkey before. They pick on anyone who is different.”
“But, I’m no different from any other chubby dweeb? Why would they start calling me names like that?”
“I’m afraid I don’t know Jackie,” says Deanna. “We weren’t close enough to hear what they were saying.”
“Deanna!” I yell, sitting up. “You promised you were never going to call me that at school! I don’t really know those girls, how do I know that won’t get around the school by the end of the day. I’m finished!” I moan as I slide under the table.
“I’m sorry Jackson, but I promise they won’t tell a soul, we’ve all been hassled by those same girls and I know they wouldn’t want anyone to give them more ammunition for them to be tormented by. We’re all members of the ‘Itty Bitty Titty Club’, it was something those girls would harass us about, but we’ve come to take that as our club name with pride so they can’t hurt us with it.”
“That’s what they said I was part of now,” I say, as I desperately try to melt into the concrete. At least I don’t feel like I’m going to upchuck now. “Did they follow you over?”
“No, Tiffany and her court of jesters don’t believe in exertion, you’re safe,” says Heather. “We’ve got some time yet before lunch ends, want to come join us?”
“Fine. Why not? It’s not like I would start getting bullied by sitting with the girls.”
Please note there is another revision to the first chapter posted, not much changed except correcting the wandering tense. I did make a few significant changes to this one, though
And so, I soon find myself sitting in the grass near the hopscotch grid with the girls at West Elementary School in Mountain Home, Idaho. I am still in a daze from all of this, but at least there is strength in numbers, Numbskull Ned and his gang of knock-kneed nogoodniks are not about to cause me trouble with so many witnesses. All I have to worry about now is Tiffany and her prison princesses, it has been my painful discovery that her words hurt far worse than Ned’s noogies. I must admit, my mouth does get me in trouble, but all I can say is they started it first, so nyah, nyah, nyah!
“Why hopscotch?” I ask.
“It is the only place that the bullies won’t want to take away from us. Besides, it is Molly’s favorite,” says Gwen. Gwen is from Taiwan, a little overweight, and has very wealthy parents. She never has an attitude about it, though, in fact there are a couple of kids that she spends her money on to buy them lunch each day.
After a bit, when I had finished my turn at hopscotch, Deanna asks me, “Jackson, why did Tiffany say you were now a member of our club? Has she just found someone new to torment, or?????” as she lets the sentence hang.
Before I could crawl away, Molly, who was the red-head that was behind me at that table earlier, grabs my ankles and says, “Not so fast mister! I think that question is worth an elucidation, it is a very pertinent question.” I end up pulling her several feet since she is very slender, with beautiful emerald green eyes. Molly is one of the class brains, and last year’s winner of the State Spelling Bee. She’s also one of the nicest people in our grade, although I’ve never really had the chance to get to know her well. Gwen and Stephanie I have rarely talked to and I really don’t know much about them. Hanging out with the girls in 6th grade is a sure-fire way to tempt the plug-uglies, but by this time, what else can they do to me? I’ll be glad to get to know Deanna’s friends.
“Well, I have PE last period, and last Friday we were playing tag and my shirt got pulled nearly off of me. Needle-nose Ned came over and started to tease me…” and I start to cry.
It’s a strange experience to all of a sudden be surrounded in a group hug by a bunch of girls, let me tell you! I tried to pretend it bothered me, but that lasted all of two seconds.
Once I’ve pulled myself together I explain, “Since I’ve started to gain weight, I’ve started to develop a bit of a flabby chest and…” I sniffle and continue, “Ned said I had tits!!! I guess it took until today for that to get around the school and for Terrible Tiffany to find out.” I can’t help it, I swear, those names just come out of nowhere! When I saw Ned shove Deanna once, I tried to get in the way, and called him Nowhere Man Ned. He’s had it out for me ever since.
“Dea-” I cut myself off and start over, “Deanna, I’m sorry I haven’t been spending much time with you here…”
“Don’t you dare! I’m not about to let you apologize for that, we get plenty of time together out of school. None of this is your fault!” she interrupts. “Now say it with me – ‘None of this is my fault’ - come on now.”
“None of this is my fault,” I repeat along with her. “But…”
“Nope! Not going there Jackie! Whoops, sorry about that!”
“Watch it Deanna, I know a name you don’t want me to use!”
“What, Dean? They already know you call me that, in fact my nickname in our club is ‘The Dean’,” she replies. “Molly is the secretary, Heather is the treasurer…”
“You can have that job now Jackie, I’m not as good at math as you are,” interrupts Heather, a bit too loudly.
“Then you are now vice-president Heather, we have been needing someone to be that officially. The school wasn’t happy we didn’t have one. And Heather, careful with the name!” I think she would have had more to say, but the bell rang for the end of lunch. My next class is English, and the only club member that will be there with me is Molly.
As I start to head to class, I am ambushed with another group hug – I think I could get to like this, maybe. “IBTC, together, we are stronger than bullies!” they all chant before heading off to go to classes.
“By the way, most of the school personnel only know our club by the initials, and if anyone ever asks what they stand for, tell them it means ‘Intermediate Budokon Training Club’, oh, and by the way, we are meeting tonight with my dad for instructions.” says Stephanie as she skips away. “And you are required to be there!”
“Molly? What’s Budokon?” I ask as we head to English.
“Budokon is a martial arts form that combines Yoga with combat techniques from multiple styles including Japanese Karate-Do, Korean Taekwondo and Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. It focuses more on defensive postures than offensive. We started taking it from her dad after Tiffany started bothering us. Stephanie is already a Purple belt, all the rest of us are white belts, although Deanna is testing for Red next week.” Both Deanna and Stephanie are very athletic.
“Molly, I’m more confused now, but let’s drop it for now, my brain feels like it is a County Fair funnel cake. Just one question, why does Stephanie’s Dad teach that?”
“He is an Air Force Special Warfare, Para-rescue member and he has been training in martial arts since he was three. He started Steph on it when she was 7,” she says as we arrive to class.
After English was Math with Deanna and Gwen, which I always enjoy, in spite of Ned’s Problematic Presence. I’m not going to bore you with my academic day, I’m sure just about everyone reading this went to 6th grade. PE… Well….
Coach Murowski catches me at the door, “Jackson Phillips Brown, come with me!”
Please note, I've posted a revision to the earlier chapter, with significant changes, and there are significant changes in this one, too.
“Now Jackson, I’m aware of what happened with Ned, and all I can say is, don’t let it bother you, son. Be a tough guy, don’t let him get to you. Now, I’m sure you are a bit upset over that, and I’m willing to help you work off some of that weight. Just let me know if I can help. Now, we’re playing dodge ball today, get out there and show them what you got!” says Coach.
Gee, all I can think is ‘real helpful Coach, about as helpful as a rubber crutch’. I wish we would get a real PE teacher, not an ex-Marine Coach who was fired from the high school for losing every game two seasons straight. And I'm really tired of hearing him say "now" in just about every other sentence!
In case you’ve never played, here is Dodgeball in a nutshell. Two groups of players line up facing each other, and you throw hard rubber balls at each other. If you hit someone and they don’t catch the ball, they are out. Last team with someone not out wins. I’m doomed. There is talk about banning Dodgeball, but as of February, 1982, it hasn’t happened yet. I wonder if I can start an emergency petition and save myself?
As soon as we get lined up, Ned points at me, and says “Hey, don’t you belong in girl’s PE? They don’t play dodgeball in girl’s PE.” Just about everyone laughs at that, with Coach laughing the hardest.
“Noodle-arm Ned, do your worst!” I foolishly reply, trying to get him to shut up, and then I desperately try to hide behind someone else. Ned, I’m glad to say, has terrible aim since his grenade launcher arm would probably take off my head, and misses everyone. I’m soon ducking balls, practically spinning in place to avoid them since two of Ned’s Nasty Nephews are on my team and they are not even trying to hit the other team. I’m glad there are only 4 balls to use, we used to have 6!
You know what’s coming, I’m sure, do you really need to hear the gory details? You do? But… But… But…, oh all right, if you must.
George, Ned’s Nasty Nephew #1 (which isn't really his name, he just looks like Gorgeous George, you know, the wrestler?) is chasing me around while I’m ducking the other team’s throws. I get cornered against the wall, and - I’m actually not exaggerating this time - I’m running so hard to avoid them that, as they hit me, I run into the wall nose first and knock myself out.
I wake up in the nurse’s office, and find myself with several girls clustered around me. One says, “Hey Jackie, what happened to you?” Another one chimes in, “Do you need me to get you a new blouse, I’m afraid you got blood on this one, and girl, your hair is a mess…” I jump up screaming,
“What do you mean I got blood all over my blouse? Oh god, I need some cold water and…” I scream again...
I get up screaming (sort of), “I’mb dot bwearing a bwouse….” Trailing off I now awkwardly whisper through my bloody nose, “Id’s called a chirt.” Thankfully, no one is in here to hear me, as the nurse comes back in carrying some towels.
“I heard you yell, are you alright?” asks Nurse Lisa. “Did I hear you say something about turning blue? Oh my, Jackson, you are bleeding again, try and be still and quiet, I've got some cotton for your nose.”
“Oh gay.”
“Now hold still Jackson, I need to clean you up some, you’ve got blood all in your hair, don't worry, I’ve called your Mom to come get you, there is no way I’m letting you walk home like this, you know you have some really nice hair, so long and blond.” If she would stop talking so fast, maybe I could understand her? When does she breathe? Her Italian accent doesn't help, either.
She pulls me over to the sink, sits me down and starts washing my hair, she's woman-handling me like I'm a goat trying to escape and I'm squirming like an eel. Ewww, she’s using that medicated anti-bacterial soap meant for cleaning out wounds, you know, the red stuff. You don’t? You really don’t want to know what this is like, I promise, and you can’t begin to believe how it stinks, I swear it must be made with fermented yak innards, rubbing alcohol, stewed prunes and horse manure. Can you die from a smell? Stay tuned, campers, you just might find out!
The door to the nurse's office opens, but I can’t see who is there for the soap, so I ask hopefully, “Mom?”
“No Jackson, it is Principal Williams. I heard you had a little accident? I was able to find a shirt for you from the lost and found, it was the only one that I think would fit you, as tiny as you are.”
Thank God, she is one of the only two people in this school who know about my past health problems, and why I am shorter and, in spite of my weight gain, still skinnier than any of the fourth graders, much less the kids my age. Since you don’t know, I should explain, I was born with a blood disease that didn’t get caught until I was nearly 6, and it severely stunted my growth. I’m cured now, but they don’t know if I’m ever going to catch up to the other kids my age.
“I’ll take over Miss Cambria, Jackson is a child I’ve gotten to know quite well over the years. I think he would be more comfortable with me, he really isn’t very comfortable with adults he doesn’t know, that's probably why he is squirming so. I have the Vice-principal ready to see the kids out, and he could use your help with parents,” she says as she rinses out my hair.
Just as the nurse left, I hear an even more welcome voice, “Principal Williams, do you know if Jackson came into the office or something? I was waiting to walk home with him, and…”
“Yes, Deanna, he’s right here getting his hair washed. He is okay, but he got hurt playing Dodgeb….”
“Jackson!!!!” Deanna shrills. “What happened? Are you dizzy, can I do anything to help, are you having any trouble breathing, where’s the nurse? He should have his asthma medicine, in case he isn’t breathing well…”
“Deannda, I’mb oh gay, jutht a bloody dose dow,” I strangle out.
“Principal Williams, he can’t walk home like this, but I can carry him home again…”
“What do you mean, carry him home again, Deanna?" the Principal interrupts. "I don’t think any student has ever been carried home from this school by another student, and I know it hasn’t happened since I started here.”
“Well, he got hit in the head last summer when a tetherball pole cemented into a tire got bent over, and when it popped back up, it hit him and cut him above his eye. I carried him to my house so my mom could get him some help,” explains Deanna.
“Not to worry Deanna, his mom is on the way.”
So now, I’ve got cotton stuffed up my nose, I’m soaking wet and my head feels like Magic Johnson has been dribbling it back and forth on the basketball court a few dozen times - plus I smell like the what I would imagine the inside of his shoes would smell like after a game. It can’t get any worse!
“Honey, I’m so sorry I couldn’t get here any quicker, is my Schätze ok? Come to mommy, I’ll fix you some soup when we get home. Principal Williams, I absolutely forbid you to have Jackson play any more of that awful game, Dodgeball should be banned!” Oh god, my mother is here, and she is in full on mom mode. “Jackson, do you have breathing trouble, is your asthma acting up? I’m going to take you to the hospital, they might have broken your nose, or bones in your face, or who knows what. In the morning, I'm coming back and give that Coach a piece of my mind, I swear that man ist… Ganz Verückt! Ich werde seinen kopf haben!” Help me please, God, she’s speaking German again to the Principal.
“Mom, pblease shtop! Du sprichst weider Deutsch!” I yell. “I’mb ogay! Djust dake me home.”
“Here Jackson, I’ve got a shirt for you, take that wet one off!” says Principal Williams.
Of course, mom had to do it for me in spite of me trying to do it myself, and in the process, I’ve now got soap in my eyes from the wet shirt coming off. Hmmm, this new shirt feels weird, the collar is kinda rough, but, you know, I can’t see it!
“Deanna, do you want a ride home?” asked my mom.
“Thank you Mrs. Brown, do you have room for a couple of others? They live in between here and home. Jackson, I think that top is so cute on you!” she giggles.
Top?
“Sure, I’ve got the station wagon, the more the merrier.”
So now I am led outside, I can see a little bit but my eyes still hurt, and the entire club is waiting out there! There must be at least a couple of dozen other kids waiting for a bus that’s running late, and I’m trying to hide my face.
“Jackson!” the girls all yell. “Are you okay?” adds a few of them.
“I’mb ogay,” I mumble as I'm getting hugs. I hear a few of the other kids whispering, not very well, and they are talking about me. I wish I could just crawl into a hole. Deanna, Stephanie and Heather get into the car, Heather sits up front with mom and the other two herd me into the back seat with one on either side of me. As I’m leaving I overhear someone say “Cute top, I wonder where I can get one.” What's a top?
So now, I am led outside and I can see a little bit but my eyes still hurt, and the entire club is waiting out there! There must be at least a couple of dozen other kids waiting for a bus that’s running late, and I’m trying to hide my face.
“Jackson!” the girls all yell. “Are you okay?” adds a few of them.
“I’mb ogay,” I mumble as I'm getting hugs. I hear a few of the other kids whispering, not very well, and they are talking about me. I wish I could just crawl into a hole. Deanna, Stephanie and Heather get into the car, Heather sits up front with mom and the other two herd me into the middle seat, with one on either side of me. As I’m leaving I overhear someone say “Cute top, I wonder where I can get one.” What's a top?
“Seatbelts everyone!” yells my mom, seemingly with nary a care in the world.
“Mom, cgan I bremove the gotton?” I ask, as I remove it.
“Jackson, don’t you dare, you might start bleeding again!” she yells as she turned around. “I should have known it would be out already,” she complains. “It’s ok, I have Kleenex in case it starts bleeding, Deanna, sweetie, please get some out of my purse if it does. Please, dear God, can you explain to me why 11 year old boys are such trouble?”
Of course, this has me trying to slide onto the floor as the girls all crack up, and Heather says “If you take a closer look, Mrs. Brown, we don’t have Jackson here now, we have Jackie,” through her laughter. This puts all the girls in stitches and me into confusion.
“Heather, I’m the same me, Jackie or Jackson. I don’t like using Jackie at school because it is also a girl’s name and I’ll get teased.”
“Mrs. Brown, do you have a mirror?”
“Sure honey, take a look in my purse”
Heather digs into the purse, pulls out my mom’s mirror and says “Jackie, take a look at what you look like right now,” handing me the mirror.
I’m still confused, and wondering why she is handing me the mirror as I take a close look. “I don’t see any change, Heather, except my wet hair is pulled back behind me now with a rubber band.”
“Jackie, Jackie, Jackie, give me back the mirror and try this again,” she says, and pulls the mirror further away from me.
“Aargh!” I scream. “I’m wearing a girl’s shirt, it’s got lace and... and... and... a butterfly! Why am I in a girl’s shirt! Is the Principal crazy? Mom, is Aunt Sue mad at me again? I promised I’d be good in her school. I didn’t make fun of anyone’s clothes.”
“Jackson, it isn’t because of anything you did, Sue’s not mad at you, I would imagine she couldn’t find anything else in your size, you almost fit in your sister’s clothes, and she’s 5!”
“Mooooommmmm!”
I’m sure if I try, I can slip back into the crack in the seat; there is space in the floorboards behind this bench, after all. I wonder, do moms take lessons in how to embarrass their children, or is it just a side-effect of pregnancy? It can’t be just being a parent, Dad doesn’t embarrass me like this!
“Mom, can you just stop, I’m sure they don’t want to hear all about that!” I moan.
“I’m sure Molly would love to hear it, but Mrs. Brown, I think maybe Jackson has had enough, he’s starting to shiver, I think from his wet hair,” says Deanna. “It is cold outside and this car’s heater isn’t working all that well. Besides, we are almost at Heather’s.”
Hey, Deanna, it isn’t my wet hair making me shiver, it’s this shirt, half the school saw me in this!
“On the left, the house with the old truck under the tree, Mrs. Brown,” says Heather.
"I'm just a few houses further down, I'll get out here too," says Molly, as both girls wave goodbye.
Once we got home, Deanna heads up to her trailer and we go inside to ours. We live in a mobile home park about a half a mile from the school, almost close enough to be on the bus route. My parents rent two lots for our mobile home, since for the longest time she was afraid to let me go anywhere and wanted some room for me to play. If you’ve never lived in a mobile home, the lots don’t have a whole lot of room left over once a home is on it, and we have an expanded living room. Daddy is very handy and rebuilt a beaten up motor boat, a camper trailer, and also built a workroom and a playhouse for us. Mom works as a waitress at DI Stoney’s. They met while Dad was stationed in Germany, from there they went to Thailand, where I was born. Dad is kinda small, for a guy, and Mom is even shorter. He’s from Virginia, with black hair and blue eyes, skinny but strong. Mom is a full blood German, in fact she spoke little English when they got married. I’ve learned some German, I have to if I’m going to survive mom, when she gets upset she forgets to use English. She’s got blue eyes, too, but I have no idea what color her hair actually is since she dyes it blonde – I think it is a light brown. I’ve got really pale blonde hair, it was almost white when I was born, blue eyes and, much to my dismay, lots of freckles. Mom says they are angel kisses, or that I swallowed a dollar and broke out in pennies. I look more like her than Dad, I’m told.
I’m off to my room to get changed and do my homework, and for some reason mom has told me to hang up the shirt in my closet – which I do, but with my eyes closed. I swear, I don’t understand her sometimes, it’s like she was born on Mars instead of in Germany. I guess maybe she wants me to take the shirt back tomorrow? Before I can start, though, mom comes in and blows my hair dry, which does help me feel warm. After I finish my homework, I head to Deanna’s. My home away from home.
I’ve been friends with Deanna since Thailand, so I just go ahead in, saying, “Honey, I’m home,” in a very bad Cuban accent. “Luuucy, you got some ‘splaining to doooo.” We both love the old Lucy re-runs.
“Oh, Ricky! Waahhhh!” cries Deanna in a perfect imitation of Lucille Ball, I just wish my Ricky was better.
“Would you two stop?” says her mom. “I’ve got snacks for you both, go wash up.”
After we’ve washed up, we get the snacks and head out to play. Mountain Home is in the Owyhee desert and our mobile home park is near the edge of town, so we can explore that desert all we want. There’s just enough of civilization to ward off the coyotes, at least during the day.
Once out away from the park, I turn to Deanna and ask “Deanna, is a top what I had on? It’s not called a blouse? I thought girl’s shirts were called blouses.”
“Jackie, for you, it’s simple. You wear a shirt and pants or shorts. Boring. I’ve got all kinds of different things to wear, jumpers, capris, camisoles and many more. We call anything we wear as you would a shirt a top.”
Oh god, I was wearing a ‘cute top’, goodbye cruel world.
“Jackie, what are you talking about, goodbye cruel world?”
“I said that out loud?”
“Yeah, you mumbled something and then said ‘goodbye cruel world’, are you ok?”
“Oh, I’m just thinking about what’s going to happen when the rest of the school knows about my ‘cute top’, once the gossip gets around, I’m going to find a hole in the ground and just pull it in over me.”
“Jackson, you’re exaggerating, besides, I bet it gets forgotten before Monday. Come on, let’s go play!” says Deanna.
For some odd reason, there is a ditch around most of the park, that's where the evil tetherball pole is that tried to take my eye. Papa put some wood planks across the ditch, and we cross there now instead of swinging across on the pole like we used to do. We wander around the desert for a bit, talking about nothing in particular, and before long, we come to our spaceship. I don’t know what it really was, but someone abandoned an old, round metal building out in the desert, it’s rusty and has some holes beat in it, but it is our spot. Once inside, we have our snacks and take out some books to read. My favorite time of day, reading with Deanna in the spaceship.
“Jackie, don’t forget we have Budokon training tonight.”
“I’m not sure I want to go to that, you know the only athletic thing I can do is run. You need strength for martial arts.”
“It is far more important to learn the katas and to be quick, and that I know you can do. When we started, Molly wasn’t very strong either and she is doing very well. If nothing else you learn how to avoid getting hurt.”
“Oh, all right,” I moan. “I guess I’ll at least try it the first day.”
Once it starts to get dark, we head home. I’ve got two days of bliss before my life as I know it ends on Monday.
Da da da da da dum dum da
Da da da da da dum dum da
Oh, there's something that I want
But there's nothing I can do
Put a spell on me, and make it strong
A girl of me, from you
Give me everything that I want
Like some breasts that's oh so true
Put a spell on me, and make it strong
A girl of me, from you
Give me hair that's long and blonde too
And flowing down my side
Give me hips like women have too
That'll keep me satisfied, oooh
Yeah, there's something that I want
And it's something you can do
Just make me a girl, I'll send along thanks
With love from me to you
From me, to you
Justt make me a girl, I'll send along thanks
With love from me to you
Give me lips soft and warm too
And let me be a bride
Dressed in white and I will thank you
and I'll be satisfied, oooh
Yeah, there's something that I want
And it's something you can do
Just make me a girl, I'll send along thanks
With love from me to you
To you, to you, to you
I recently came out to my wife, and this reworking of John Lennon's "Woman" says just how it went. Amazingly, it takes very little reworking!
Woman
I can hardly express
My elation for your thoughtfulness
After all, I'm forever in your debt
And woman
I will try to express
My inner feelings and thankfulness
For giving me the freedom of a dress
Ooh-ooh, well-well
Doo, doo, doo, doo, doo
Ooh-ooh, well-well
Doo, doo, doo, doo, doo
Woman
I’m glad you understand
The little girl inside the man
Please remember, my life is in your hands
And woman
Hold me close to your heart
However I dress, it won't keep us apart
After all, it is written in the stars
Ooh-ooh, well-well
Doo, doo, doo, doo, doo
Ooh-ooh, well-well
Doo, doo, doo, doo, doo
Woman
Please let me explain
I'm glad I didn't cause you sorrow or pain
So let me tell you again and again and again
I love you, yeah-yeah
Now and forever
I love you, yeah-yeah
Now and forever
I love you, yeah-yeah
Now and forever
I love you, yeah-yeah
Now and forever