It is said that as we become our true selves we then empower or give permission to others to become their true selves. Knowing who we are on the inside and that it conflicts with who pretend to be on the outside can cause much stress and despair. We are often controlled by others or pushed into conforming to their world view so that their stress is reduced irrespective of how it impacts on us. For Kerry the time of solitary confinement is finished in a most unexpected way. Enjoy reading about my life.