A little advise. I did much the same many years ago.

1. Be strong! You've already proved you're tough. Now, be strong on the inside and vulnerable on the outside.
2. Be empathic towards others.
3. Be sure that you look your best at all times.
4. Carry yourself as though you've always been what you are.
5. Let small slights flow off your back like water off a duck. Most of the time, they aren't slights at all, just the way people talk.
6. Go about your life as if you've always done it this way, but you're ready to take advice about new or better ways to do things.
7. Be friendly, but slightly reserved. Keep your private life private.
8. Enjoy! Life is great, but short.