I hope, if she is still able that she communicates her wishes and love then passes swiftly and as painlessly as possible. I sincerley hope her fiances are all in order as probate can be a mess if there is not a clear and valid will or if the accounts are not titled right. Ideally all her bank accounts are joint accounts with right of survivorship or *or* accounts as our bank calls them. That way the survivor gets immediate ownership of the assents on death without death taxes or probate, at least in Wisconsin. My parents were careful to do this and it eased the burdens on my father greatly.

Watching a loved one die is never comfortable.

A recovery seems unlikely if they are moving her to hospice.

It took my mom nearly five moints to die after her terminal diagnosis, nearly all of the time in hospice at home. Fortunately she was fully lucid until near the end and then still herself that last few days just that thoughts came slower as she was so weak.

I hope your Nanay's end is kind to her and her family.

John in Wauwatosa