under repair, please be patient

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you know, when I first went for help about my abuse, I really didn't expect much. I hoped I would figure out if there was a connection between my abuse and my gender issues, and maybe I'd learn how to cope a little better, but that was all. Same thing was true when I first started thinking about transition - I fully expected that I'd hit a brick wall, and have to settle for being Dorothy online only.

But now, I find I have a bunch of other stuff to deal with too - a deficit in terms of my social skills, wild mood swings, and struggles with my weight and finances. With the last two I finally figured out what the problem is - I have a tendency to take the immediate gratification instead of sticking with my long term goals.

I find it ironic that my gender issues which I assumed would be unsolvable have actually turned out to be the area where I've made the most progress ...

I feel like hanging a sign on me - "Repairs in progress, your patience is appreciated"

Ah, well .

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Have some hugs

while you are repairing...

*Sending Hugs**

Anne Margarete

Your repairs and the goal are

Your repairs and the goal are things that are the most important things you could do. Patience as the goal is approaching more each day.
You are going to make and we here are all going to even prouder of you.
Hugs and warm snuggles

A bit of Borderline Personality Disorder.

A bit of Borderline Personality Disorder is all it is and with work and patience with yourself it can get better. I know because I have a bit of Borderline Personality Disorder myself.

Gwen

Well...

Life is a work in progress.

Throw in reincarnation, and existence is a work in progress.

as my best friend puts it.

Dawnfyre's picture

next door nutbar.

we all have one and are one. :)

the reality is, everyone had their own quirks, and we all need to work on controlling them, so you now know exactly what your are, you can devise a plan to control them. You are in a far better position than the majority of people are, they don't even know what their quirks are.


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