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Finally, I see a crack of dawn, the early light that promises a new day is coming. The last three years have been agony on me as I lived daily in fear that my life was going to be ended.

Let me bring people up to speed, just so it doesn't appear that I am simply being melodramatic. A little over three years ago my Aunt Rosalie died. She was the woman who raised me from the time that I was three with brief interludes apart. But she was the only one in my life who had always been there for me. She left me an inheritance and that brought the vulture (a.k.a. my mom out). My mom stole from me, she stole 14k dollars out of my Aunt's bank accounts, all of my aunts jewelry, all of her furniture, her television, her computer, everything. She even went so far to tell the bank that I had vanished and was presumed dead in order to get the IRA my aunt left me in my name. So much for trusting her, and one of the reason I detests liars and this was my own mom.

Thankfully, I was able to get the bulk of my inheritance and buy a house (18k, cash offer, not bad) It's small, but it's home. Before I bought my house I was living in a homeless shelter at 470 dollars a month (for a small room that barely fit a twin size bed and a dresser, and not even my own bath). I knew my aunt would be pleased. Her one great concern was me not ever winding up on the street.

Fast forward to February 2012. I knew a couple through the ministry that I used to work for. They were "good, christian people", they were currently in Alabama, but wanted to move back to tampa. I had a spare bedroom and I needed work done to the house and Marcos (fuck it I'll use his real name, if you see him, run him over with a truck) Egana was a good handyman. He worked construction jobs. So I offered him and his wife my spare bedroom and offered to pay for the work done on my house (adding a privacy fence and putting in insulation, that kind of thing).

So, he was here barely 3 weeks and when I return home one night the police were there waiting for me. I had to wait outside for 5 hours until they got a search warrant and another 2 for the police to ransack my house. Evidently they told the police that I had purchased the house with money I got through illegal dealings (they knew about the inheritance, the police didn't).

A week later I was arrested on trumped up charges. The detective said that they had evidence of bigger things but learned that I was a flight risk and needed me to stay put. I don't know what Marcos and Tiffany told them, but I was assured they had evidence.

Now, I gave these people full reign of my house and all my possessions. Did they plant something in the back yard, did they plant something in my room, did they put something on my computer. All I was told was they had evidence. While I was arrested, in the one night in jail they raided my bank account for over 3000 dollars (they withdrew 1000 in cash and did buy and returns at Walmart and Home Depot). They also ran up my credit cards. I never got my money back from the atm card because Marcos claimed I gave him permission. (As if I'm going to give a person 1000 dollars to waste at the Hard Rock Casino). Yet another reason I detests liars.

But there was more. It seems Marcos wasn't who I thought he was. He was on the run on 3 different crimes in Alabama. He had stolen brass from an Army base in Alabama where he was working construction, he was writing bad checks, and, to my horror, he was being investigated for molesting his eight year old niece. Not to mention the litany of drug charges he already racked up. If I knew any of that I wouldn't have let him through the door.

He also tried to steal my house. He said that if the cops said they had something that I was surely going to jail and that I should sign over power of attorney on the house so he can rent it for me while I was in prison. Thank God I didn't do that. I kicked him and his wife out of my house.

But for the past three years, I've been waiting for the cops to show up and arrest me on this mysterious evidence they claimed to have. The detective would call me to let me know they had something and list the things Marcos took from police property claiming them to be his (play stations, electronics, tools, etc.).

So finally the statutes of limitations ran out yesterday. I no longer have to live in fear that I will have to defend myself for something I didn't do. I learned a long time ago that the law doesn't play fair and the more you claim your innocence the more they pile time against you into you cave. On the trumped up charges I took 6 months probation instead of face 5 years in state prison. They had no evidence, but had convenient lies that I didn't have alibis for (I threw papers for a living. I drove at night, alone, how can I have someone vouch for me at 4 in the morning.)

But, it's over. Finally. I am hoping to get what is left of my property back soon, but will go through the lawyer. The main thing is the deed to my home. I think I need that. The phones, computers, and even the playstation is now outdated. Such a shame. But maybe now I can relax, except that I am still on the lookout for liars, because they can really ruin your life.

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Fight? (Admittedly Unsure)

Daphne Xu's picture

It sounds as if you had a horrid run of bad luck: betrayed first by your mother, then by two persons you thought you knew, then by the law. My gut instinct says to fight, and make sure you have a good lawyer. I hope and wish you had a good defense lawyer right from the start. It's hard to do anything by yourself; it's easier and more comforting to know that you are not alone. Do you have any siblings or relatives you're friendly with?

I'd look into RICO, civil rights laws (such as Section 1983), criminal laws, etc. Of course, it would cost a fortune, and one would be fighting people with a whole industry behind them. (That in part is what RICO is about.) There are organizations such as the ACLU who might support you.

I hope you get your house back, and as much of your money as possible.

-- Daphne Xu

Write about it

Angharad's picture

put it in a story, get your revenge by making money out of them as characters in a story. There are lots of horrible people out there, that one of them is your mother is very sad.

Angharad

killing my mother through fiction

My mom has made my hit list through stories often. She was in How Life Can Change as Vivian (my mom's actual name too) and as Sheila in God Bless the Child. (That was actually her and my step father Ritchie).

I have always said that their are evil people in the world and I'm the daughter of their queen.

Katie Leone (Katie-Leone.com)

Writing is what you do when you put pen to paper, being an author is what you do when you bring words to life

I'm saddened that life has given you so much... material

But yes, using it for stories seems to be one way to at least wring something positive out of it.

I only hope that all the trial and tribulation haven't soured you on people entirely. It's all too easy to become jaded. I know. I hope the fact that you have managed to survive all these people, despite whatever scars, bolsters your self-image as a survivor. And a prevailer. If there is no such word, there should be.

These people were a bad episode in your life, but you prevailed. They were a temporary torture for you. Take some comfort knowing that no matter where they go in life, they will always be in the thick of the s###storm, because they ARE the s###storm. YOU are the survivor. Take solace, and maybe some pride, in that.

And use it all. God knows, you earned it!

K@

Katie Leone `s last blog

Dear Katie
Very sorry to hear that you have had so many infortunate set backs. They seem to show that you are too trusty of others. Mind you your own mother? That is a bit much. Usually , the first people we shoud be able to trust are our parents.
A great American industrialist had a funny habit. Every time something really bad hapened to him, the first thing he used to say is: That is very good! Then, he would spend the next minutes to find out what was so good about it. It turns out that every time a misfortune knocked on his door, he would turn it into a great advantage.
From your story, I would have learned the following:
In business, document everything and always manage to have a proof. Usually when someone makes a will, a complete inventory is made of what you were given, that list should be acknowledged and signed by someone who is an official witness. When you purchase a property, the sale contract is suposed to be made by a lawyer who will start to search the title of the property to establish that the person who sells it to you is truly its rightfull owner. The contract states the details of the sale and the description of the property. The lawer will also register the sale of the property at the county`s office and the county`s records are then going to show you as the only rightful owner. Trying to save money on legals always create problems bigger and more costly that the amount of money you first tought you saved.

Also Katie, from your writings, everyone can feel your soul and you come out like a very loyal and ethical individual. Sometimes, it is harder for this type of human being to imagine that others may not have the same standards.
Also Katie, when you live on a strict budjet and your earnings are low, every penny you pay someone to do for you ,is done with "after tax`" money , so it is very costly. Today someone as intelligent as you are can find instruction on the internet to do yourself pretty well everything. You then spend your "after tax money" only on materials and you can consider it a one time adventure to tackle the job yourself. If you absolutely have to contract it out, never do it to strangers you do not have strong recommendation about from someone you do trust (if there is still someone you trust). I will bet you that if you do the job yourself after gathring the right instructions, you will not only be very satisfied with the results but also proud to have met yet another challenging experience. You are a lot more resourceful that you give yourself credit for. I talk from experience. I was the first child of five children and my father was blind. At ten years old I was installing doors. I had no other choice as nobody could do it but me. Sometimes people will say that I am very handy. I answer that I am right handed but leftie with both hands. What it takes Kathy is determination when you want something done. Be ready to go down to hell and fight bare fisted with the devil himself untill you get it done. Determination is the secret.
I have learned all my life from the challenges which were presented to me . As a result, you become a much stronger person believing that you can handle anything which is thrown your way.
I offered you my friendship before Kathy and I have no doubt that many of your readers have you in great esteem too. Sometimes you can use your contacts as a mastermind group when a new challenge is thrown your way. Every human being has a different background of experience and knowledge and true friends will be more that happy to give you feedback about anything you come across.People like it because it makes them feel usefull and "usefull" is one of the main ingredients of fulfilment
Good luck Katie for future challenges which come to you and I will be happy to give you my opinion on anything you ask. There are much more knowledgeable people than me around but sometimes just to consult someone else about a challenge helps us to view it through a different facet of the prism and notice clues about possible solutions we could not see at first
glance.
Very warm regards to you
isabelle Audet [email protected]